All this belongs to the world of legend; but the copulating male demon, or incubus as he was called, gradually began to invade the lives of real women. There is a hint of this as early as the ninth century, in the writings of Hincmar, archbishop of Rheims (the same who concerned himself with
Around 1150 St Bernard had to deal with a more serious case.(21)
Arriving at Nantes, he found a woman who was much vexed by an incubus. The demon would come to her at night and take its pleasure of her, always without waking her husband. For six years she concealed her shame, but in the end fear of God’s judgement drove her to confess to a priest. Unfortunately none of the penances or remedies prescribed — neither prayer nor pilgrimages — proved effective; the demon returned every night and was becoming more and more lascivious. So when Bernard appeared the woman threw herself at his feet and implored his aid. The man of God spoke gently to her, promised her the help of heaven and told her to return next day. That night the incubus visited her again, adding blasphemies and threats to his usual misconduct. But Bernard devised a remedy: he gave her his staff to take to bed with her. This kept the demon at bay, but he stood outside the room, uttering fearsome threats and promising to resume his debauchery as soon as Bernard had gone. This called for more vigorous counter-measures. The following Sunday Bernard summoned the whole population to church. While the congregation held lighted candles, the saint mounted the pulpit and told the whole lamentable story; after which he solemnly anathematized the demon and forbade it, in Christ’s name, ever to molest any woman in future. That worked; as the candles were extinguished, the demon’s power was destroyed. The woman made confession and received the Eucharist; after which she never saw her incubus again.A century later, Caesarius of Heisterbach has several tales about incubi. There was, for instance, the sad case of the priest Arnold, lately of Bonn.(22)
Though a priest, Arnold had a daughter so beautiful that she was constantly importuned by men, and especially by the canons of the cathedral. One day a demon came to her in the form of a man, and by sweet talk seduced her. They made love often and with great satisfaction; but in the end the girl repented and confessed to her father, who promptly sent her away across the Rhine. Thereupon the demon appeared to Arnold, shouting, “You wretched priest, why have you taken my wife from me? You have done it to your hurt.” And he dealt him such a blow on the chest that the unfortunate man vomited blood, and died within three days. Caesarius tells also of a woman at Breisach on the Rhine who, feeling death approaching, confessed to a priest that she had been making love with a demon. It had given her such pleasure that she had resisted confessing for seven years; and now her soul passed from her before she could finish her confession and receive absolution.(23)It is clear that these are all regarded as serious cases. When a woman yields to an incubus, she imperils her eternal salvation. Compared with this, the transgression of a man with a succubus, i.e. a demon in female form, is slight indeed. Here too Caesarius has an instructive example to offer. John, a theologian of Prüm in the Rhineland, tried to persuade a woman to come to him one night. She did not in fact come, but a demon came in her place, in her likeness and with her voice. In the morning his visitor informed the cleric that he had been in bed not with a woman but with a demon. But John merely uttered a strange word (which Caesarius, out of modesty, cannot repeat) and laughed at the demon, quite unperturbed by his strange adventure.(24)
People never did regard succubi with the same horrified fascination that they brought to incubi.