Пять путей к сердцу подростка

4. James Garbarino, Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them (New York: Free Press, 1999), 6–7.

5.  YOUTHviews 5, no. 9 (May 1998):2.

6. Jerrold K. Footlick, «What Happened to the American Family?», Newsweek (Special Edition), Winter/Spring, 1990, 15.

7. Eric Miller with Mary Porter, In the Shadow of the Baby Boom (Brooklyn, N. Y.: EPM Communications, 1994), 5.

8. Richard Louv, Childhood\'s Future (New York: Anchor, 1990), 6.

9. Ron Hutchcraft, The Battle for a Generation (Chicago: Moody, 1996), 32.

10. George Barna, Generation Next (Ventura, Calif.: Regal, 1995), 32.

11. Thom S. Rainer, The Bridger Generation (Nashville: Broadman & Holtman, 1977), 44.

12.  YOUTHviews 6, no. 3 (November 1998): 2.

13. Ibid., 6, no. 1 (September 1998): 2.

14. Ibid., 5, no. 1 (September 1997): 1.

15.  YOUTHviews 5, no. 8 (April 1998):1; published by The George H. Gallup International Institute, Princeton, N. J.

16. Ibid., 5, no. 9 (May 1998):2.

17. Ibid., 6, no. 8 (April 1999):3.

18. Ibid., 5, no. 7 (March 1998):2.

19. Ibid., 5, no. 6 (February 1998):5.

20. Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 2.

21.  YOUTHviews 5, no. 2 (October 1997): 1, 4.

22. Цитируется по: James Garbarino, Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them (New York: Free Press, 1999),50.

23. Ibid., 51.

24. Ken Canfield, The Heart of a Father (Chicago: Northfield, 1996), 194-95.

25. Garbarino, Lost Boys,

158.

26. Тем, кто борется с гневом, могу порекомендовать книгу: Gary Chapman, The Other Side of Love: Handling Anger in a Godly Way (Chicago: Moody, 1999).

27. Garbarino, Lost Boys, 138.

28. Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence (NewYork: Bantam, 1995), 25–35.

29. David Popenoe, Life Without Father (New York: Free Press, 1996), 191; Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Boundaries with Kids (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1998), 46; Garbarino, Lost Boys, 154.

30. Garbarino, Lost Boys, 168.

31. Ibid., 163.

32. Ibid., 132.

33. AnneCassidy, «Fifteen Ways to Say’I Love You’», Women’s Day, 18 February 1997, 24.

34. О том, как справиться с гневом, читайте: Gary Chapman, The Other Side of Love: Handling Anger in a Godly Way

(Chicago: Moody, 1999).

35.  YOUTHviews 6, no. 8 (April 1999): 1; published by The George H. Gallup International Institute, Princeton, N. J.

36. Ross Campbell, How to Really Love Your Teenager (Wheaton, Ill.: Victor, 1983), 33.

37. Gary Smalley and Greg Smalley, Bound by Honor (Wheaton, Ill.: Tyndale, 1998), 98.

38. Eastwood Atwater, Adolescence (Englewood Cliffs, N. J.: Prentice Hall, 1996), 198.

39. Ibid., 201–202.

40. Smalley and Smalley, Bound by Honor, 107.

41. Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 13.

42. Gary Chapman with Derek Chapman, The Five Signs of a Loving Family (Chicago: Northfield, 1997), 35–36.

43. Счет до 100, 500 или даже 1000 может быть эффективным средством борьбы с немедленными и неуправляемыми гневными реакциями. По поводу того, как это может вам помочь, см.: Gary Chapman, The Other Side of Love (Chicago: Moody, 1999), 38.

44. Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 150.

45. George Sweeting, Who Said That?

(Chicago: Moody, 1995), 302.

46. Ibid., 370.

47. Lawrence Kutner, Making Sense of Your Teenager (New York: William Morrow, 1997), 44.

48. Lawrence Steinberg and Ann Levine, You and Your Adolescent (New York: Harper & Row, 1990), 16.

49. Ibid.

50. Ibid., 16–17.

51. Ibid., 16.

52. Иисус назвал величайшими заповедями: любить Бога всем сердцем и любить ближнего, как самого себя; см. Мк. 12:30–31.

53. Lawrence Kutner, Making Sense of Your Teenager (New York: William Morrow, 1997), 141.

54. Steinberg and Levine, You and Your Adolescent, 187.

55. John Rosemond, Teen-Proofing: A Revolutionary Approach to Fostering Responsible Decision Making in Your Teenager (Kansas City: Andrews McNeal Publishing, 1998), 170.

56. Shmuel Shulman and Inge Seiffge-Krenke, Fathers and Adolescents (New York: Routledge, 1997), 97.

57. Tom and Adrienne Frydenger, The Blended Family (Old Tappan, N. J.: Revell, 1984), 19.