Ты не слушаешь. Что мы упускаем, разучившись слушать, и как это исправить

184 …другой вид реакции переноса — Kelsey Crowe and Emily McDowell, There Is No Good Card for This: What To Do and Say When Life is Scary, Awful and Unfair to People You Love (New York: HarperOne, 2017).

185 …стоит за обычаем квакеров формировать «комитеты ясности» – “Clearness Committees – What They Are and What They Do,” Friends General Conference, https://www.fgcquaker.org/resources/clearness–committees–what–they–are–and–what–they–do.

186 …когда матери просто слушают своих детей… – Bethany Rittle– Johnson, Megan Saylor, and Kathryn E. Swygert, “Learning from Explaining: Does It Matter If Mom Is Listening?,” Journal of Experimental Child Psychology 100, no. 3 (2008): 215–224, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jecp.2007.10.002.

187 …более подробные решения – Robert M. Krauss, “The Role of the Listener: Addressee Influences on Message Formulation,” Journal of Language and Social Psychology 6, no. 2 (1987): 81–98, https://doi.org/10.1177/0261927X8700600201; Kate Loewenthal, “The Development of Codes in Public and Private Language,” Psychonomic Science 8, no. 10 (1967): 449–450, https://doi.org/10.3758/BF03332285.

188 «Вдумчивый разговор» – “About Us”, Great Conversations, https://www. greatconversations.com/about–us/.

189 …ранее незнакомые люди говорили о возникшем ощущении близости – Arthur Aron, Edward Melinat, Elaine Aron, Robert Vallone, and Reness Bator, “The Experiental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness: A Procedure and Some Preliminary Findings,” Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

23, no. 4 (1997): 363–377, https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167297234003.

190 …результаты снова напечатали в статье The New York Times от 2015 года – Mandy Len Catron, “To Fall in Love with Anyone, Do This,” New York Times, January 9, 2015, https://www.nytimes.com/2015.

191 …движущей силой своего творчества… — Michael Lewis, “How Tom Wolfe Became… Tom Wolfe,” Vanity Fair, October 8, 2015, https://www. vanityfair.com/culture/2015/10/how–tom–wolfe–became–tom–wolfe; John McPhee, “Omission,” New Yorker, September 7, 2015, https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2015/09/14/omission; Neely Tucker, “How Richard Price Does It: New York Dialogue, Only Better,”

Washington Post, March 1, 2015, https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/how–richard–price–does–it–new–york–dialogue–only–better/2015/03/01/11ad2f04–bdec–11e4–bdfa–8e8f594e6ee _ story. html.

192 Люди всегда рассказывают вам, кто они такие — Elizabeth Strout, The Burgess Boys (New York: Random House, 2014), 160.

193. …люди мало слушают друг друга — “Elizabeth Strout, ‘Anything Is Possible,’ ”YouTube video, 55:04, posted by Politics and Prose, May 9, 2017, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v = Y gDv12z4nQ&feature = youtu.be.

Глава 13. Молоточки, наковальни и стремена: превращение звуковых волн в мозговые

194 …они могут слышать приближение грозовых облаков – “Elephants Can Hear the Sound of Approaching Clouds,” BBC, December 11, 2015, http://www.bbc.com/earth/story/20151115–elephants–can–hear–the–sound–of–approaching–clouds.

195 …до рефлекторной реакции на звуковые стимулы – Lizabeth M. Romanski and Joseph E. LeDoux, “Bilateral Destruction of Neocortical and Perirhinal Projection Targets of the Acoustic Thalamus Does Not Disrupt Auditory Fear Conditioning,” Neuroscience Letters 142, no. 2 (1992): 228–232, https://doi.org/10.1016/0304–3940(92)90379–L; “Auditory Cortex,” Wikipedia, last edited March 30, 2019 at 16:00 UTC, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Auditorycortex.

196 Она названа в честь немецкого невролога Карла Вернике… – Judy Duchan, “Carl Wernicke 1848– 1905,” History of Speech–Language Pathology, University at Buffalo–SUNY, http://www.acsu.buffalo.edu/~duchan/new history/hist19c/subpages/wernicke.html; Gertrude H. Eggert, Wernicke’s Works on Aphasia: A Sourcebook and Review: Early Sources in Aphasia and Related Disorders, vol. 1 (The Hague: Mouton Publishers, 1977).