The Female Orgasm Black Book

If you want to be a plumber, you simply go to a trade school, graduate, and POOF! — you’re a plumber. Why can’t it be that simply when it comes to becoming an excellent, satisfying lover?

Where did you learn about sex? Whispering with your buddies over contraband cigarettes and alcohol? Stumbling upon your Dad’s stash of pornographic movies and magazines? Those ridiculous “sex ed. classes” they gave in school?

Let’s take a look at this “education”…

First off, looking back, it’s probably safe to assume that at least 75% of the sex stories your buddies offered you were complete, unadulterated bull-shit, pure and simple.

Secondly, the porn industry isn’t the “real deal.” The scenes are scripted, the women paid to perform and most of those orgasms are faked (at least by the women). Sure, you might have picked up a few useful positions or techniques, but if porn is your only sex education, you definitely need to keep on reading.

That leaves us with school-sponsored sex education, probably the most well-funded (and successful) campaign of propaganda to convince kids and teens across the globe NOT to engage in sexual activity!

Your teachers were too busy threatening you with the nightmarish possibilities of unplanned pregnancy and STD’s and dulling your senses with complex (and totally not-sexy) charts and diagrams.

I’m willing to bet no one was sharing the goods on the G-spot, clitoris or the potential for female ejaculation!

Sure, it’s important to know about condoms, birth control, AIDS and HIV, but what you really wanted (and needed) to hear about was the fine art of cunnilingus, giving multiple orgasms and other super-secret insider tips.

And that’s what you’re about to learn in this manual!

What This Manual Is About

This manual is a plain-and-simple, instructional guide on how to give women orgasms. The Female Orgasm Black Book is something that you can refer to time and time again.

I’ve written it with a male reader in mind, but the information in this manual is intended to help men, women and couples achieve female orgasms and have a more fulfilling sexual relationship.

The core section (The Female Orgasm Black Book) contains details of female orgasms, along with the overall “system” or “strategy” you’ll employ. I’ve also included a few techniques to illustrate what needs to be done, and when.

The other parts of the manual can be looked at as the “toolbox” of techniques. You’ll find a variety of different sexual techniques you can use to “plug-and-play” into the overall system.

OK, enough introductory talk… let’s get down to business!

CHAPTER 2

Keys to Success

One of the main things that make this book so much better than all of those other sex books is that I’ll take you through a two-step approach that addresses the whole sexual experience, instead of merely a portion.

The two aspects that this manual is going to focus upon are:

1. Strategy (the mindset and overall framework of the female orgasm)

2. Tactics (techniques and the “how to’s”)

The biggest mistake that you can make is to focus on the how-to without paying proper attention to the best mind-set and strategies of the female orgasm.

In reality, the strategies are the key to unlocking the power of the techniques. You’ll understand that while the techniques by itself can be effective, the mind-numbing, noisy, wet, toe-curling orgasms lies largely in the strategy you use when applying the techniques.

So, in order to get the most out of these tactics, you’ve got to pay close, intimate attention to the strategies

Key #1: Mindset

Your state of mind (and your partners’) can really make or break the chances of her having an orgasm…

The Wrong Mindset

How do you approach your lover’s orgasms?

You probably enter into sex with the mindset and goal of “giving an orgasm.”

It’s this approach that leads too many guys on a wild goose chase for the “perfect” strokes and techniques. It leaves you blindly seeking out every tip and trick out there, furiously testing them out on your lover.

I hate to break it to you, but this is the wrong mindset if you truly want to “give” an orgasm.

It sounds contradictory, I know. But it’s true, and here’s why…

When you head into the bedroom with the goal of “giving” her an orgasm, you’re setting up expectations in both of your minds. This approach will create pressure on both you and your partner that an orgasm MUST happen. Once you add pressure to have an orgasm, it is virtually guaranteed to add some negative stress and anxiety during your intimate times together.

And… as this stress grows, it will actually make it much harder for her to cum.

Have you ever seen a football or basketball player “choke up” during a game?

The fans, the crowds, the competition build up so much pressure for the athlete to perform well that their focus is diverted from the game and to their anxieties.