The Female Orgasm Black Book

Some people think that the urethral sponge and the G-spot is the same thing, while others think that they’re totally different. In any case, stimulating this area can cause massive pleasure, and female ejaculation!

The urethral sponge is a spongy tissue and surrounds the urethral canal. It’s important because of 2 reasons:

1. Filled with nerve endings

The urethral sponge is filled with nerve endings, so stimulating it will be highly pleasurable a woman.

2. “Skenes Glands”

This is the key to female ejaculation.

When stimulated, the Skenes glands (also known as the “female prostate”) produces a clear ejaculatory fluid that gets released when a woman has an orgasm.

A-Spot:

The A-Spot (sometimes known as the AFE-zone-Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone or Epicenter) is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder.

Unlike the G-spot, which is in the shallow part of the vaginal depths, the A-spot is found all the way in. Penetrate using your middle finger, maneuvering up and all of the way to the back. You’ll find it just in front of her cervix, where there’ll be either a bit of tenting or ballooning of the vaginal walls in that area.

Also, unlike the G-spot where the texture is rough, the texture of the A-spot is smooth.

To stimulate the A-spot, you can use the fingering method mentioned above, or rear-entry sexual positions, as well as frontal positions where you can hike her legs up for good, deep thrusting.

Opening the Lines of Communication

Even if your lover isn’t comfortable telling you what she wants, where she wants it and for how long, the two of you have to be close enough and open enough to offer important feedback and encouragement.

G-spot orgasms are markedly different than other orgasms, and it’s a good idea to prepare your partner for just how different it might be. The more you prepare her, the more relaxed and comfortable she’ll be entering the realm of the unknown. The first thing you should suggest to your lover is that she oral pleasure to the bathroom and attempt to pee.

Some of the sensations caused by G-spot stimulation will make her suddenly feel like she has to urinate. By going a head and using the bathroom before heading to the bedroom, you’ll prevent her from worrying about peeing. Otherwise, she won’t let go completely, and if she can’t let go, she probably won’t cum.

Even after doing a preliminary bathroom break, she may still be worried that she’s got to pee. Tell her not to worry, that’s perfectly normal. Also, be sure to let her know that it is physiologically impossible for her to pee when at peak arousal. Coach her that when the urge to urinate begins to come over her, not to fight that feeling. Alert her to ride the wave, push through the fear. If she can make it through, she can get to the reward at the end — floating and falling, losing herself in your touch, her body wracked with wave after wave after wave of pleasure.

Other Erogenous Zones

There is much more to your lover’s sexual network than what’s in between her legs. Her entire body, from the tip of her toes to the top of her oral pleasure, abounds with opportunities to pleasure her. Just a few of those erogenous zones include:

The Neck

Sexy and sensitive, the neck is ideal for, well, necking! Kissing, nuzzling, suckling and licking, as well as nibbling and massaging, are great ways to get her in the mood. But be careful — hickies are tacky. Start slow and then increase your intensity.

Her Ears

The human ear contains bundles of nerve endings that equate to increased sensitivity. Capitalize on that by massaging them, kissing them, tickling them with your breath and whispering in them to really drive her wild.

Her Lips and Mouth

Once things start heating up, don’t neglect those kisses. Kiss her, deeply, passionately. Nibble her lips every now an then. Remembering to make up can really fire up your erotic playtime.

Her Scalp

Because of the shield of hair that most likely covers your lovers oral pleasure, the skin of the scalp can be incredibly sensitive to direct touch. Massage her scalp, run your fingers through her hair, brush her hair, look for ways to pleasure her in this manner too.

Breasts

Aside from being incredibly sexy, breasts are also incredibly sensitive. There are some women out there who report being able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation alone! Stroking, fondling, kissing, nibbling and tweaking the breasts and nipples are just a few ways you might want to give the twins a little extra attention.

Her Ass

While the anus is sensitive (don’t believe me, try giving her a rim job!), here I’m talking about the actual flesh on her bottom. The skin can be highly sensitive, and spanking, stroking and kissing or gently biting the flesh can really make her toes curl!

Other erogenous zone areas include:

• Feet and toes

• The small of her back

• Behind her knees

• Collarbones and shoulders

• Her belly — especially the imaginary line that runs from her bellybutton to her clit.