The Female Orgasm Black Book

CHAPTER 4

The Female Orgasm Blueprint

What you’ll learn in this chapter:

• The Orgasm Blue Print… what it is, how it works, and why you need it

• Changes that happen in a woman during each step of the female sexual response.

The “Orgasm Blue Print” is the strategy to female orgasms. It a 4 phase “battle plan” designed to release a woman’s orgasm.

The blue print is broken down into 4 “Phases”, and 5 distinct “Stages”.

They are:

Phase 1: Seduction

Stage 1: Desire

Phase 2: Sensations

Stage 2: Excitement

Stage 3: Plateau

Phase 3: Surrender

Stage 4: Orgasm

Phase 4: Reflection

Stage 5: Resolution

Now, I have to admit, I can’t take credit for the overall “outline” of the blue print. This model is based off of the “Circular Model of Female Sexual Response”, developed by Dr. Beverly Whipple and Dr. Karen Brash-McGreer.

Circular Model of Female Sexual Response Developed, as by Whipple and Brash-McGreer

^{Whipple and Brash-McGreer’s circular model of female sexual response shows how pleasure and satisfaction during one sexual encounter can lead into the seduction phase of the next sexual experience.}

As you can see from the diagram above, it looks impressive and informative, but… it lacks the steps to bring about an orgasm in the first place!

So, what I have done is taken this overall framework, and added the practical, technical, nitty-gritty instructions on how to get from one stage to the next (and ultimately an orgasm). That’s where the sexual techniques come in (as you’ll soon find out).

Here’s a modified version of the Circular Model of Female Sexual Response, which I call the “Female Orgasm Blueprint”:

It’s probably a little easier to understand than the first diagram, but I’m sure you have some questions about it.

First, what I want to do is paint broad strokes and give you a general overview of each phase and its stages. On top of that, I’ll show you what happens in a woman’s body during each of these sections (and knowing this, you’ll know what stage she’s in, and know if she’s having a real orgasm or not!)

Following the chapters, we’ll dig deeper in each section, and I’ll teach you the techniques you’ll be using in each stage of the blue print.

And finally, once you’ve gone over the details, I’ll provide you with a step-by-step plan (using this blueprint) that you can use to give your partner orgasms.

The 4 Phases

Phase 1: Seduction

Believe it or not, the path to female orgasms begins OUT of the bedroom.

For a woman to have an orgasm, she has to be horny…and to get horny, she has to have some sexual desire in the first place…and for her to have sexual desire, she has to be attracted to you.

And that’s the goal of the “Seduction” phase…is to get your partner sexual desire up so she’s ready for the next phase.

Stage 1: Desire

Desire is made up of 2 distinct parts: Initial Desire, and Sexual Desire.

1. Initial Desire (Attraction)

The initial desire is when a woman is attracted to you. She can be a total stranger you meet at the mall, and if you two make eye contact, she might be attracted to you.

Or… she could be your girlfriend or wife, and because of that, she’s already attracted to you (unfortunately, this isn’t the case all the time though).

Now, because of the scope of this book, I’m assuming that you already have a sexual partner, (or that you can easily get one) and you’re both ready and willing to have sex. In other words, you already have someone who is attracted to you, or you’re someone who can easily obtain attraction from other women.

Because of this, I’m focusing mainly on sexual desire (discussed next) and all other things that happen in the bedroom.

To fully cover the topic of attracting the opposite sex would take another book!

So, if you’re a lonely, single guy who needs to know how to attract women (in other words, create that initial desire)…or…if you’re already in a relationship but your partner has lost the attraction to you, take a look below: