1. Lick up half-way, and then lick back down. Repeat anywhere from 1-10 times
2. Add in one full lick, going over the clitoris.
3. Repeat these steps 20 times
Ok, by now her clitoral head should be hard and erect. With all of the teasing you’ve been giving her has built up enough tension to release her orgasm, and she’ll be ready for the next step.
This method will help you figure out what the exact location, speed, and pressure your woman will like best. Once you find the optimal location, speed and pressure, you’ll maintain that until she has an orgasm!
As I mentioned earlier, women have involuntary contractions when they orgasm, but what you want to look for is the contractions in the vagina. You’ll be using your fingers to feel for these contractions.
You’ll “calibrate” one indicator at a time, starting with:
• the best location on her clitoris, then
• the optimal pressure of your tongue, and finally
• the right licking speed
1. Lick one or two of your fingers (index, or index and middle fingers) to lubricate them.
2. Slowly insert your finger(s) into her vagina, about 2-3 inches in, with your palms facing up.
3. Find the G-Spot. It will be on the ceiling of her vagina, and it’ll have a bumpy texture to it. Once you find it, just leave the pad of your fingers “on the button”. Don’t stimulate this area (yet)
Ok, now that your fingers are in there, what you want to do is feel for any contractions in her vagina. It will feel like her vagina is squeezing your fingers momentarily. Sometimes the squeeze is soft and barely noticeable… so you’ll have really pay attention.
4. With your tongue, slowly lick around, on top, to the side of her clitoris. What you’re trying to do here is to find a “spot” that makes her vagina squeeze.
5. Once you found the spot, apply different pressures with your tongue. You want to find the best pressure that will cause her vagina to squeeze.
6. Lastly, apply different licking speeds on that spot, using the same pressure.
7. When you’ve found all of those, hold steady! Don’t change locations, pressures or speed (even if she says so). Maintain what you’re doing, no matter what.
8. When she's nearing orgasm her vaginal muscles will start to clench hard around your fingers, and it will hold its’ grip longer.
9. Keep a steady pace, rhythm and pressure — under no circumstances change what you're doing, or you run the risk of having to start from scratch!
10. Right before she has an orgasm, she’ll squirm and want to move around…but…your job is to maintain what you’re doing until her orgasm is complete!
11. Orgasm #1!
Once she has a clitoral orgasm, we’re going to transition into G-Spot orgasms.
Orgasm #2: G-Spot Orgasms
At this point, your fingers should still be inserted into her vagina, and the pads of your fingers sitting still on her G-Spot. As you just begin stimulating the g-spot, it’s a good idea to start out with slower, lighter strokes, and gradually crank up the speed and pressure.
First, transition into the right position:
Her Position:
Have her raise her legs so that her knees are closer to her chest. She can hold her thighs with her hands.
Your Position:
You want to change your position from laying on your stomach with your head in-between her legs, to an upright position where you’re on one knee.
Tip:
For more intimacy and an opportunity to kiss, you can lie beside her while stimulating her G-spot.
Techniques
You’ll see that the way G-Spot fingering works is like a rollercoaster. You’ll start off slow and light, increase the speed and pressure…then…switch the technique and repeat the process again.
By doing this, you’re building up further anticipation and sexual tension for the orgasm. On top of that, it’ll be easier on your fingers, wrists and forearms too! Fingering and pumping away at the G-spot can become very tiring on your arms, so switching intensities allow you to let your muscles rest.
We’ll cover 4 basic techniques here. Once you’ve mastered these, you can “plug and play” some of the more advance techniques listed in the advance fingering report. Just remember whatever technique you use, that you start off slow and light and gradually build up the intensity.
• Slowly rub the G-spot in a forward and backwards motion with the pad of your finger(s).
• Aim for: 100 slow/light strokes, 100 medium strokes, and 100 fast/hard strokes
• Now, begin to rub very lightly, tracing small, light circles.
• Aim for: 100 slow/light strokes, 100 medium strokes, and 100 fast/hard strokes
You can do this using either one, two, or even (if she’s ready for it…) three fingers.