The Female Orgasm Black Book

Basically, you want to make she she’s relaxed, you’ve worked out any knots, and that she’s really turned on.

Again, at this point, she’s:

1. Super aroused

2. Super relaxed

3. Ready (and probably begging) you to touch her vagina.

That’s where we’ll move onto next.

CHAPTER 7

Phase II: Sensation

Stage: Plateau

First, as you read this section, you’ll notice that the instructions leads into orgasms. If you remember from the Blueprint, the Orgasm is part of the next phase (Phase 3: Surrender).

I purposely added a section on orgasm in this chapter, because you’ll be going from stimulation to orgasm, and then back to stimulation again (in other words, multiple orgasms).

It’s just easier to follow the sequence if the Plateau and Orgasm stages stayed in one chapter.

However, the next section will dive deeper into the topic of orgasms.

Ok, now we’re going to get right into direct genital stimulation. But first, read the following before you begin:

“3 Before Me” Rule

The 3 Before Me rule basically says that you want to make sure she has 3 orgasms before she starts pleasing you. Why “3”?

• Most women don’t have an orgasm from intercourse (at least not right away). So what we’ll be doing is “setting her up” so that once you do have intercourse, it’ll be easier for her to orgasm. And even if she doesn’t have an orgasm from intercourse, because she’s already experienced 3 of them previously, she’ll still be satisfied!

• Reciprocation Principal-generally, this means that if you do something generous for someone, they’ll feel obligated to do something generous for you. In this case, you’re giving your partner the gift of female orgasms, and she’ll want to return the favor. What she reciprocates varies, but you’ll find that once it’s her turn to start sexually stimulating you, it’s going to be GOOD.

• You’ll probably be the only guy (ever!) in her life to give her 3 orgasms in one night. That will make you extra special in her mind! She’ll absolutely love you for it, and…she might even brag to her friends about you

• Once she has 3 orgasms, it really doesn’t matter if you can’t last long while having sex. She’s really not going to care if you orgasm too fast…I mean heck, she just had 3 of them.

• Make a note that this is really a loose rule. It doesn’t have to be 3 all the time; it could be 1, 5, or even 30. But the general principal applies: you want to please her FIRST before she pleases you.

The 3 orgasms are going to flow through the sequence of:

1. Clitoral Orgasm

2. G-spot Orgasm, and finally

3. Blended Orgasms

It’s important that you always start off with the clitoral orgasm. The clitoris is very sensitive, and at first, it’s going to be the most responsive (and easiest part of the body to bring a woman to an orgasm). Also, stimulating the clitoris first actually “primes” the G-spot… in other words, the G-spot will be more responsive and easier to find after clitoral stimulation.

Once she has an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, you’ll move on to stimulating the G-spot (and giving the clitoral head a “break”). At this point, her orgasm should come faster than the first one. Also, the “feel” of the G-spot orgasm will feel different to her than a clitoral orgasm. It’ll feel deeper, and there will be more involuntary contractions.

Lastly, the blended orgasm, you’ll be targeting both the clitoral head AND G-spot. This will be the most intense of the orgasms…and…if she didn’t ejaculate from G-spot stimulation, she might here.

Orgasm #1: Clitoral Orgasms

Remember at this point after you’ve massaged your partner, she’s pretty aroused, and her clitoris might be erect by now. From here, we’ll move onto oral sex.

By far, the best tool to stimulate the clitoris is the tongue. But, you’re not going to feverishly lick her clitoris right away…you’ll go through a series of steps designed to intensify the pleasure once you focus on her clit.

Also, you’ll be using a little known technique that will let you use your fingers as a sort of “thermometer” to figure out exactly if you’re licking the right spot to bring her to an orgasm.

The Right Position for Oral Sex

Before we begin, you have to be in the right position for oral sex.