The Female Orgasm Black Book

Knead the back of the legs, starting from the calves, and slowly work your way back up toward the buttocks.

Step 8: Buttocks

You’ve already gazed her butt, and by now she’s probably wanting you to touch it.

Grab the oil, and slowly drizzle a bit of the oil all across her ass cheeks, letting drops slip down the crack of her ass, and sliding down onto her thighs. Watch the slight shudder that follows your teasing attentions…

Begin with gentle strokes, using the whole surface of your palm — fingers splayed, with heavier pressure on the heel of the hand versus the tips. Then begin gently, though more insistently, squeezing her bottom. If she responds well to this firmer pressure, you can use your knuckles — of your balled fist — for the kneading.

Next, have her turn over and lay on her back.

Once she’s on her back, position your self to her side and have your fingers and pointing towards her feet.

Step 9: Top of the Chest

Grip the chest muscles by placing your fingers into her armpit, and your thumbs on the top of her chest. With a slow circular motion of your thumbs, massage the chest. You’ll want to move from the area just under her collar bone, and work your way down

Step 10: Breasts

From here, you’ll continue to stroke and tease her breasts, saving her nipples for last. By the time you get there to kiss, lick, pinch or stroke her nipples, they’ll already be rigid with desire — and highly sensitive. You’ll notice that as you kiss, lick and stroke her breasts and nipples, her back will arch up, in hope of more. You may also notice that she’s reaching down to touch herself — don’t let her do it!

Step 11: Belly

From the breasts, glide your hands toward her belly.

Using the whole surface of your hand to rub up and down her abdomen, using medium to light-pressured strokes. Then, place your hands so that both of your thumbs are facing the center of the abdomen, rubbing upwards towards the ribcage, following with your cupped hands massaging up to the under-side of her breasts.

Step 12: Glide Down, and Back Up

Now, slowly glide your hands down toward her mons pubis, go around her pubic hair, towards her inner thighs, and go all the way down toward her feet in one smooth motion. You want to go past her genitals in order to tease her more, and build more anticipation.

Glide back up (you can add in some kneading strokes while you’re going up the legs, but I usually skip this) until your hands are on her inner thighs again.

At this point, your inside of your hands should be on either side of her labia.

Back Massage: Steps 1-6 (direction going down)

Back Massage: Steps 7-8

Front Massage: Steps 9-12

Labial Massage

Once you’re here, she should be:

1. Sexually excited, her vagina should be pretty wet because of the “teasing” you’ve used during the massage

2. Physically and mentally relaxed.

Again, just like massaging her body, you’re feeling for knots. This time, it’s going to feel like there’s a small piece of rice embedded under her skin. These are tiny tension spots, and you’ll want to massage them out.

Warning!

Regular latex condoms will break when combined with oil, so if you’re using massage oil on her genitals, you want to make sure that you’re using Polyurethane Condoms.

Step 1: Massage

Your hands should be on either side of her outer labia (outer lips). Your thumbs should be on top of her mons pubis (above her vagina), and your fingers should be pointing downward to the ground.

Gently massage this area like you were massaging someone back of someone’s neck with both hands.

Start with your fingers at either side of her vaginal opening, and work your way towards the top (but make sure you don’t make contact with her inner lips! Only her outer lips).

Tip: Indirect Clitoral Stimulation with the Labial Massage As you massage her labia with both hands, what you can do is grasp the fatty tissue of her labia in between the index fingers and thumbs, and squeeze this fat together so it “pinches” the clitoris. (Don’t do this too hard! You don’t want to make it painful on her).

In the “pinched” position, move your hands down, and then back up, so in essence, you’re stroking her clitoris with her labia.

Step 2: Mons Pubis

Use your thumbs or finger tips and gently massage the area (remember to look for any small knots). You’ll feel her pubic bone. Work on top of it, and just above the pubic bone.

Finished!

Now, the massage is done! This massage process should take you anywhere from 10-20 minutes. There really isn’t a hard and fast rule for the amount of time you need to spend on each step of the massage. It really depends on her level of stress.