The Female Orgasm Black Book

If you have no idea about how to give a massage, don’t worry about it. I’ll take you through each step as we go alone.

Also, you don’t have to be a professional masseuse to give a relaxing massage. With the basic massage techniques you’ll learn, and, more importantly, the sequence of where to massage, you’ll get her relaxed and sexually aroused even if you’ve never given a massage in your life!

How to Give a Massage

First, a few pointers:

• When massaging, feel for any knots. They’ll feel like a lump in the muscle. These are areas of tension, and you’ll want to “smooth” them out.

• When massaging, always maintain contact with her body with your hands.

• Keep a slow, rhythmic, steady pace.

• Tell her to breathe slowly, but inhaling through her nose, and exhaling through her mouth. Also, tell her to focus on her breathing. If she focuses her attention only on breathing, it will make her forget about the stressful things in life, let go of her anxieties, making it easier for her to relax (and come to an orgasm later on).

• The general rule for massaging is to massage toward the direction of the heart

• Ideally your partner should experience your massage as one long series of rhythmic strokes.

• Basic Massage Strokes

1. Gliding:

Keep your fingers together and glide your hands along the length of her body or limb. The pressure can range from feather-light, to firm.

2. Kneading:

Gently grasp the area with both hands and make a kneading action similar to that of kneading dough. This is a firm stroke used on a specific area to help release muscle tension.

3. Friction Strokes:

Whenever you come across a knot, you want to use this stroke. Using your thumbs or fingertips, make small circular movements (slowly) and apply firm pressure.

How And Where to Massage: The Steps

Ok, with the massage, first she’ll be sitting upright, and you’ll be massaging her scalp. She could be sitting on your lap, or in between your legs. You’ll be sitting behind her at this point.

Step 1: Scalp Massage

Start with the scalp, curling your fingers of both hands and using the pads of your fingertips to make small, soothing circular motions. Break contact with the scalp occasionally to run your fingers sensuously through her hair.

Step 2: Ear Lobes

Now, move to her earlobes, gently massaging the sensitive flesh with the tips of your thumbs and first finger. Once you’ve finished with her ears, gather her hair up into a bed-head bunch, trying to keep strands of hair off the neck and shoulders, where you’ll be using your massage oil.

Step 3: Neck and Shoulders

Now, have her lay down on her stomach.

When massaging the neck and shoulders, you should use a firm, kneading grip, applying more noticeable levels of pressure.

Start with the neck, then traps (the muscle between the neck and shoulders) and then the shoulders. As you begin to notice that the tension is draining from her neck and shoulders, you can begin to work her back.

Step 4: Back

For the back, you should begin with plenty of oil, which you should soothe into her skin with gentle, gliding strokes.

Once her skin is well lubed, you can begin the firm, kneading pressure. Begin from the top of her back, and work your way toward her lower back.

Step 5: Ass Tease

From her lower back, switch to the gliding stroke and lightly go over her buttocks. Each hand should be placed on a separate “butt cheek”.

Now, position yourself so you can see her vagina (remember to maintain contact with her body during the massage!). At this point, she should be pretty wet.

Make one or two large circles with the palm of your hands, firm enough to spread her cheeks…then…slowly glide your hands towards the inside of her thighs (narrowly missing contact with her genitals), and move to the back of her legs, down her calves, and finally toward her toes.

She should be getting pretty excited by now!

Step 6: Foot massage

Gently knead the meaty area between her heals and the balls of her feet. Start from the area closest to the toes, and work towards the heel.

Step 7: Back of the Legs

Before moving on to the back of the knees and calves, look for subtle yet noticeable strokes and brushes across her perineum or labia to build a feverish anticipation for the devoted attention of your mouth, tongue, fingers and hands.

When massaging the legs, work both of them simultaneously. Use your massage oil liberally. When attending to the back of the knees, use soft, light feathery strokes, but not quite to the point of a tickle. She should be pleasantly uncomfortable (a little squirmy, perhaps) but not rolling around laughing her heart out.

Apply a bit more pressure on the calves… they’re using a source of tension (especially if she’s standing or walking all day long).